I would like to get an oil mixed with cbd and THC, but I get super paranoid on a lot of THC, what would be a good mix to help with basic anxiety?

If consuming a tincture heavy in THC makes you paranoid, try one with a 4:1 or higher CBD:THC ratio. CBD will blunt the psychoactive effects of THC. Start small and work your way up to a full dose of your selected product, or until your needs are adequately met.